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Lake Norman Coffee for a Cure Brings in Over $35,000 for Pediatric Cancer Research

2017 Lake Norman Coffee for a Cure. Photo courtesy of Localscroll.com

Our 2nd annual Coffee for a Cure hosted by our ISF Lake Norman chapter was a huge success.  Thank you to the 250 men and women who attended and the sponsors and local businesses who gave time and money to this event.  This event served as a call to action in the fight against pediatric cancer and to educate community members on the importance of bringing pediatric cancer treatments home to Charlotte.  We were able to raise $35,000 and donations have continued to come in.  These funds bring us one step closer to our 2017 $1,000,000 fundraising goal to fund the creation of a MIBG room at Levine Children’s Hospital.

Our Lake Norman chapter could not put on such a wonderful event if it wasn’t for the support of our community businesses who help us through their sponsorship. It is through their passion for charitable giving and making a local impact that we are able to continue Isabella’s fight. Thank you to the following businesses:

2017 Lake Norman Coffee for a Cure. Photos courtesy of Localscroll.com

During the event, we introduced our new major gift society, called The Three Wish Circle, with an annual gift of $5000 or more, donors can take their support of the ISF mission to the next level by funding more research for childhood cancer and help to bring innovative treatment options to our local community.  If you have questions or want to know more about how to take your support to the next level, contact our ISF Development Director, Tia Wackerhagen.

We cannot begin to put words to how grateful that we are for the impact you are helping us make, thank you for your support.. We are so proud of what we have accomplished together and it is because of YOU. We could not do this alone and could not continue our fight without your help. We humbly thank each of you and look forward to a world with no more cancer where we will beat cancer, grow hair and live the dreams of all children fighting the fight.

We appreciate Local Scroll Charlotte for capturing the event, view all photos of the 2017 Lake Norman Coffee for a Cure.

He wasn’t there in the beginning or the end…

Written by Erin Santos, Isabella’s Mommy

It’s been a long 5 years but relationships are growing and changing at Levine Children’s Hospital.  I’ve gone from admiration and love, to fear and anxiety and then back again with these doctors.  The walls and people that once crippled me upon entering after Isabella’s death have become a second home to me.  I know I can joke a lot about how a large donation commitment can buy you a hospital friendship, but it’s become much more than that.  I feel like I have become so much stronger around them.  Just a few years ago, I could barely stand without my knees buckling when I knew Dr. Kaplan was going to be at an ISF event.  Then, this past July – I find myself in the oncology clinic helping give gifts to the kids for our Christmas in July event.  I feel  him coming down the hall before I even see him, just like it used to be –  and my heart still stops for a minute.  We exchange pleasantries and hugs – like you do with an old boyfriend who you run into at a Starbucks years later.  It’s uncomfortable because there was history… but it’s becoming more comfortable because there IS history.  Not sure if I can ever feel totally comfortable around him – but I’m trying really hard.

Luckily, my new contact at Levine isn’t my old boyfriend Dr. Kaplan  🙂  As I sat in the “Green Room” of the NBC Charlotte news studio this week for over an hour with Dr. Javier Osterheld (one of Isabella’s past oncologists), I found myself comfortable and enjoying the company. We were together to talk on air about the MIBG treatment room ISF is funding at Levine’s.  We talked about all things cancer, the hospital, family, beer and other things that might be tad inappropriate.  I found myself laughing and enjoying the company of a man who I wasn’t the biggest fan of several years ago.  Cancer can make you love and hate people all in the same week.  He is easier for me because we don’t have the 5 year history that I had with Kaplan.  He wasn’t there in the beginning or the end.

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We talked about his training with Isabella’s Dream Team and I asked him how many half-marathons he had done in the past.  His answer… “This is my first.  And I’m doing it for you and Isabella.”  Maybe he was bullied into doing it at first, but maybe he’s just really an amazing guy and we lose that vision of these doctors when they give us horrible news about our children.  It brought me back to my ‘Why I loved Him’ blog post  about how you go through these feelings of total admiration for these people because your child’s life is in their hands.  You put this God-like complex on them and they don’t ask for that.  In the end, they really are just normal people who like you have jobs they love and are just trying to save the life of kids.  But they are also people who drink beer, and make fun of themselves and laugh and cuss… just like you.
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I find that through Isabella’s death, new things come to life, like friendships with people you once hated that were really only trying to save her.  I can see them all more clearly now – and they are all amazing people.

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Awareness… What a Bullsh*t Word

Originally published on HuffPost, written by Erin Santos

(Written and published 4 years ago, this article is the perfect reminder of why we refer to September as Childhood Cancer ACTION month)

a·ware·ness
noun

1. knowledge or perception of a situation or fact.
“we need to raise public awareness of the issue”
2. synonyms: consciousness, recognition, realization

September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, and as I sat eating dinner with my family the other night, I told my husband, Stuart, that I should write something for this month of awareness. I blurted out, “Awareness. What a bullsh*t word. That word is the problem.” And just like that, this blog post was born.

I’m sure the word “awareness” comes from back in the day, when no one spoke of cancer. The “C” word, as it was called. People died quietly. Very rarely was a child with cancer even seen. Probably because there were no real treatments for them, so they died so quickly. Even 20 years ago, they were barely saving one child who was diagnosed with neuroblastoma, we were told at our consultation with Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. Hell, we were told that our daughter, Isabella, wouldn’t have survived her brain relapse if it had occurred just three years earlier. Isabella would have been dead 9 months after her initial diagnosis. There wouldn’t even have been enough time for me to get her story out to you. So, awareness month was a good thing back then… hey, meet this little 3-year-old with cancer… Nope, wait.. She’s already gone.

But now, times are changing. These kids are fighting harder and longer. Their stories are getting out there because the chemo drugs are not curing kids, but they are extending their lives. People ARE aware of them. Awareness of pediatric cancer is out there. But now we are getting stalled because the movement is not moving.

Here is what a typical pediatric cancer month looks like: You “like” a couple of Facebook posts about childhood cancer or maybe even “share” one. You think about signing up for a childhood cancer 5k, but your life is busy, so you don’t get around to it. You take your kids to soccer practice and do homework and have drinks with girlfriends and go to work and church and read People magazine to catch up on your favorite celebrities and see how short Lindsay Lohan’s shorts were in NYC the other day… “Oh, no she didn’t,” you say. And then, you are running errands in late September and start noticing the city turning pink and think, I need to schedule that mammogram.

Then it is October 1.

Did you know that the 2012 cost of government elections was more than 6.2 billion dollars? Did you know that in 2012, the cost to RE-ELECT the SAME president was estimated to be 2.6 billion dollars? That is something you should be aware of. Because in 2012, we spent less that 10 percent of that 2 billion dollars funding childhood cancer research, or less that 5 percentof the 6 billion-dollar-cost of 2012 government elections. And just 4 percent of the total cancer funding goes to pediatric cancer. Also scary to think about, 60 percent of all funding for drug development for adult cancers comes from pharmaceutical companies. What is the percentage of funding for drug development from pharmaceutical companies for childhood cancer research? Almost zero. Why? Because children’s cancer drugs aren’t profitable. Ouch.

There is some awareness for ya!

2013-09-04-Isabella_Santos.jpgSo, back to my issue with this “awareness” word. The movement I want to start is this… Let’s maybe change what your September looks like. Print a picture of my daughter. Tape it to the back of the doors in your house. That’s right, the front door and the back door. Every time you walk out the door, take a look at her.

She died in my bed on a Thursday morning around 9:30 while her little brother was at camp at the YMCA. She was 7 years old. She died about 80 years early. She also died because she ran out of treatment options. She died because her cancer has very little funding and her drugs aren’t profitable.

Look at her picture when you walk out the door for your awareness. “Awareness.” Check. But then, when you get in your car to take the kids to school, go to work, go to the gym… think about something you can do that is ACTION. Forget awareness. September is Childhood Cancer “ACTION” Month. Do something that day that is action to save a child’s life. Sign up for race, make a donation, research what is really going on, ask your friends to help, talk about it, have a lemonade stand, write your congressmen, help a family who has a child with cancer. Can’t think of something to do for 30 days? Email me, I’ll help you with your list.

Cancer is an epidemic in this country and I’m confused as to why people aren’t freaking out more than they are. Probably because they don’t have it… yet. Or maybe because we are all so “aware” of cancer, but aren’t taking action against it. Maybe we are all waiting for the future of cancer. In the new Matt Damon movie, Elysium, set in an imagined future, a quick scan on your body just “SNAP,” gets rid of it. The truth is, that is not even a remote possibility in your lifetime.

Every day I’m aware. I’m aware that she’s no longer with me. I’m aware that my 3-year-old daughter, Sophia, is inside coloring a picture for her right now. I’m aware that Isabella should be in the third grade this year. I’m aware that my husband lives in fear that he will never be able to love his children as much as he loved her. I’m aware that my 6-year-old, Grant, has nightmares about her. I’m aware that every day for the rest of my life I’m going to feel like there is something missing. I’m aware of a lot. So, the word “awareness” works really well for me in my life. Describe my life in one word, actually, and it’s probably “awareness.”

So, let’s not make this month about just liking a Facebook e-card about cancer or reading a family’s caringbridge entry and then walking away. Let’s all admit that awareness is just a legacy, bullsh*t word and lets all commit to making this month about action. Action saves lives, awareness does not.

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Celebrating 10 years: She should have been a runner

Isabella Santos is a name that many people recognize in the Charlotte, North Carolina area. She has become synonymous with Neuroblastoma and other orphan cancers. Her parents started the Isabella Santos Foundation as a way of keeping her memory alive and help reach her wish of  ‘No More Cancer’.  As we celebrate 10 years of the foundation we thought it fitting to share with you the impact Isabella and ISF has made on the people who are a part of and support our growing organization. 

Children who are diagnosed with cancer are the smallest fighters, but they do not fight alone. Fighting alongside these tiny victims are the parents, siblings, relatives, neighbors, extended family, and friends. They are silent gladiators and resilient people who walk alongside these children and their immediate families. When a child is lost from cancer those supporters become the unseen victims and lose something, as well…. they lose what should have been.  It is these supporters we celebrate for helping us grow.

She should have been a runner.

“Volunteers don’t necessarily have the time; they just have the heart.” Elizabeth Andrew

Colleen on the left with Isabella

Today we introduce you to Colleen Hinsberg. She has known Isabella’s parents since their days at Lending Tree as co-workers. She has been part of the race since its conception and the Race Director for the past 4 years. It is her dedication, time, and passion that have allowed the race to grow and flourish like it has.  Colleen is working hard with her team to knock our 10th Anniversary Race out of the park.

So many amazing people are associated with The Isabella Santos Foundation. Some of these people have been there from the very beginning and others have been called to action once they met or learned about Isabella.

Tell us about your connection to The Isabella Santos Foundation and tell us how long you’ve known the Santos family?

Gosh it’s hard to believe that I have known them for over 13 years!  Stuart, Erin and I all worked together at Lending Tree. I knew them before they got married. I was one of the excited ones to learn that they were having a baby and then later that she was a girl. I worked with Stuart at 2 other jobs so I have been actively involved in the many events since Isabella was diagnosed.

Families faced with a seriously sick child meet the challenge in so many different ways. Erin and Stuart chose to not only fight for Isabella, but to create a foundation in her name that would bring awareness to Neuroblastoma and work to find a cure for all children.

Meghan and crew at the lemonade stand

When you first heard about Erin and Stuart’s idea for a Foundation what were your thoughts? 

I was thrilled. Before that point we had done a lot of things to raise money for Isabella’s treatment, a lot of which Stuart and Erin were giving to foundations that were supporting Neuroblastoma research. When they decided to fight the disease head on and form a foundation I knew they would do great things.  I had seen what they were accomplishing just within their network and how people were so willing to help. I knew that an official foundation would be huge.

Are you a part of the Isabella Santos Foundation today? If so, in what way are you involved?

I am on the Board of Directors for the Foundation as Race Director. This year (the 10th anniversary race) is going to be my 4th year in this role.  For all 10 years I have been actively involved with the race, helping coordinate all of the details that go into an event this large.

Volunteering is something that is done by people who clearly understand how important giving back is. Isabella seemed to understand that at such a young age. She inspired so many people to take action. Isabella made a lasting impression on so many people. Not only the people who knew her personally, but on countless strangers and readers of Erin’s Caring Bridge posts.

Colleen with Isabella, Stuart, and other volunteers at City Search

Can you share your fondest memories of her? 

My fondest memories of Isabella all wrap around how open and kind she was to my daughters. Through the years they would see her as we dropped food at the house, attended events, meetings and of course on race day. Isabella always was cute and polite and most importantly kind to these girls who were not part of her inner circle. Isabella somehow still seemed to know that Julia and Meghan were involved and 100% onboard with her mission to Beat Grow Live.   At the 2011 race, when it was pouring down rain and Isabella wanted to stop and dance in the rain, she grabbed my girls to be there with her.  That’s such a testament of who she was- Open, Kind and willing to stop and dance in the rain with whoever would join her.

How has Isabella impacted your life?

She hasn’t just impacted me; the support of the foundation is really a Hinsberg family effort.  Because of Isabella my family now has a cause. We now work hard to support something outside of our day-to-day lives. We take action- we run, we volunteer, we hold lemonade stands.  We speak in public- to classmates, to running groups and to local supporters. We see the satisfaction in paying things forward. We love purple and we look for dragonflies. We appreciate life and realize how precious it is. We learned to grieve, and we decided then to join the Santos Family in putting in lots of personal effort to find a cure for Childhood Cancer so no one else we know has to go through that kind of loss. 

Julia getting ready to raise money

How do you feel ISF’s call to action has made a difference over the last 10 years?

10 years ago the call to action was mostly a show of support.  A sense of “We are with you as you go through this horrible thing”. Even in the early years, Stuart and Erin decided that the shift need to be made to “this is bigger than us, we need to do more”.   We can all see what a difference that has made.  ISF is now one of the most well-known and respected charities in Charlotte.  The number of people who are supporting and even more importantly, passionate about the foundation is just amazing to see- not just here but across the county.  I am in awe of the amount of money we have been able to donate to Neuroblastoma research and other organizations that help children with pediatric cancer.  And year after year, when we ask our supporters are here to help. They know we are giving our all to make a difference and are happy to be a part of it.

Originally, the 5k for Kids Cancer run was a way of raising money to offset the financial burden that Isabella’s parents were faced with due to the overwhelming costs associated with saving Isabella’s life. It has turned into a major Charlotte event, adding a 10K and is raising hundreds of thousands of dollars.

Package pickup for the race

Please describe the changes in the 5K run over the past 10 years.

10 Years ago the race consisted of 175 people, most of us pushing strollers. We were there to show support in any way that we could.  Since then it has become more of a full morning event. We have the amazing silent auction and raffle – it’s a huge part of the day now with over 200 items to bid on.  The kids zone gets bigger and better each year- we have had to get creative on this one as so many of the kids that still support the foundation today are getting older so now you will see gravity turners and rock walls in addition to face painting and craft activities.   The race itself is now one of Charlotte’s best. We offer a 10K, 5K and a Kid’s 1- mile fun run.  We have cool finisher medals (wait until you see this years!!) and great food and music after the event.  We expect over 3500 people to be with us this year celebrating 10 years!

Looking back at where ISF began and where it is 10 years later, with its numerous arms that have developed since its conception, what are you most surprised about and proud of?

I am most surprised and proud of the way that Erin and Stuart have been able to share their personal story in the name of fighting cancer.  I would have never dreamed 6-7 years ago that Erin would be the CEO and voice of a major cancer fighting foundation.  Stuart was the talker.  Erin had written so beautifully and shared herself and Isabella so honestly of course people followed her.  When she started doing little speaking engagements I watched the crowd’s reaction and knew she had “it”. Not a lot of people can be both writers and speakers but Erin rocked it.  

Stuart, Erin and Grant each tell their story differently but effectively.  They could have buried their heads and simply just dealt with their pain and grief, instead they, as a family, embraced the fight and told their story so all of us would follow.  I remember as the events and speaking engagements got bigger thinking- wow they are really doing this, we as a foundation are really doing this! The pride I feel year after year seeing the impact are making is beyond measure.

Sending off purple balloons for Isabella

How has your outlook on life changed and what life lessons have you taken away from having lost such a special little girl?

I take time to dance in the rain. I cherish my friends and family knowing that life can be shorter than we want it to be. I am dedicated to a cause and I support people who have causes of their own.   I take action and push myself outside of my comfort zone. I am thankful that I have been a part of this journey.  It has changed my family and me more than I could ever say here on paper. 

For those of you who are not familiar with Neuroblastoma: Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center(MSKCC) defines Neuroblastoma as a rare cancer of the sympathetic nervous system – a nerve network that carries messages from the brain throughout the body.  It is usually found in young children and is the most common cancer among infants.  These solid tumors – which take the form of a lump or mass – may begin in nerve tissues in the neck, chest, abdomen, pelvis, or most commonly, in the adrenal gland. They may also spread to other areas of the body, including bone and bone marrow.  The cause of Neuroblastoma is unknown.   Learn more about Neuroblastoma.

The heart of a budding activist

Information and photos provided by Sofia’s mom

Yesterday, current cancer fighting patient Sofia had a fun reason to visit Levine Children’s Hospital.  As Sophia’s mom put it… “Today, we were able to celebrate with our own personal super hero, Dr. Joel Kaplan (Sofia’s head oncologist), as he received a grant from Hyundai Hope on Wheels.  Bonus:  the kids got to put their handprints on his white lab coat and on a brand new car!”

Dr. Kaplan and Levine Children’s Hospital was awarded a $50,000 Impact Grant from Hyundai Hope on Wheels.  This award was presented for his proven track record in providing excellent patient care to families affected by pediatric cancer and to support his continued efforts.  We couldn’t be more thrilled with this news, Dr. Kaplan not only is Sofia’s personal super hero… he was Isabella’s as well.

Sofia was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia in January of 2016 at the age of 7.  Before cancer, she was a happy, carefree 2nd grader who played soccer, took all kinds of dance classes, loved arts, crafts, hula-hooping, American Girl dolls and playing with friends and her big brother, Sam. She was blessed with such a sweet and normal childhood.  In the last 1.5 years since our lives were turned upside down, Sofia has continually amazed us with her courage and resilience. Every day we look at her and wonder how such a small girl can possibly withstand all the endless appointments, needles, pokes, tests, chemos, medications and hospital stays without even complaining or feeling sorry for herself.  Our favorite quote that seems to sum Sofia up perfectly is “Though she be but little, she is fierce.”
Sofia is still in treatment and will continue on her chemo regimen until May 2018 for a total of nearly 2.5 years.  We are extremely grateful that she is currently doing well and we are all trying to live as normally as possible between her rounds of chemo at Levine Children’s Hospital.  Sofia has even enjoyed being back in school with her friends after being homebound for one full year.  She still loves all things artsy and creative, especially designing new outfits and accessories for her dolls. She is learning to sew and hopes to be a fashion designer when she grows up. Sofia is excited that she was recently asked to be the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s 2018 Charlotte Girl of the Year because she hopes to inspire people to take action in the fight against pediatric cancer.  Behind her shy exterior lies the heart of a budding activist!